Help identifying myself??

Helloo, I've been lurking in this community for a while, this is a bit awkward because i never interact with anyone usually and only ever upvote posts (something something social anxiety) idk if I'll keep this post up at all either 🫠 anyways I've identified for the longest time as a yumejoshi/selfshipper, I've always been monogamous however and only ever had interest for my silly goober Pure Vanilla,,, yes he's very lovely,,, we have an anniversary n all, we've been together for a few years now, I've been lurking for a bit here to study the community like a bug to try and understand waifuism as a whole cause it seems so cool and I'm trying to figure out if I'm one of y'all too,,, i feel like I would've identified as a waifuist from the start if i had known this community exists but i only found out about it recently because I live under a rock🧍‍♀️ I'm serious about my relationship with Pure Vanilla, our relationship fits all the rules n stuff but I'm not sure if i qualify as a waifuist because well i haven't been one since the beginning of my relationship if that makes sense? Am i still welcome if i have only started identifying as a waifuist now? I feel so stupid making this post icl but it's okay 🥲