What is yalls opinion on your scars?

I hate mine, and I'm happy that they usually fade. I always wear pants because I don't want people to see them. I just dislike them; it's probably the worst part of self-harm. I know that some people like their scars or accept them. How did you guys come to accept your scars, and how long did it take? I'm sorry if this is a triggering question; it's just after relapsing, this is all I can think about. I will try to censor this or leave a warning.