Deciding to be one and done

So my baby girl is 4 months old and honestly things a going good. We have normal baby issues like sleep training, regression and naps but other then that we are doing pretty well. I had a great pregnancy but not such a good labor and delivery. I ended up needing an emergency c-section after 24h of labor.

Since bringing her home I’ve made the decision to wait at least 3 years to have another baby. Mostly because I want to enjoy this baby and for her to be more independent once I decide to have another new born. I get easily overwhelmed and I wouldn’t do well with 2 small babies. My partner is also working 14 days in and 14 days out which is hard by myself with the baby.

Recently my partner said he would be fine with us only have one child. He said and I quote “I love my daughter and I would be happy with just her and spoiling her”. This caught me off guard but also has me thinking do I really want another and is it normal to not want another baby this early post partum.

I guess my question is, for the mama’s out there when did you knew you were one and done and for the others did you doubt wanting another kid or not. I hope this makes sense.

I am in not hurry to make this decision but just sitting here wondering if others have been here and wanting to here similar thoughts.