Question about clubbing

Question about clubbing and night life, from the videos I seen it’s nothing like I’m used to in Europe. Do people really club or party like in Spain Germany etc? It’s hard for me to say what the vibe really is, is it just sitting drinking mostly or is there clubbing and dancing. I don’t really need to but I’m just curious what to expect. It looks kinda like Thailand but not really that wild or unhinged like girls everywhere etc. I really would like to chat with same one who traveled there mainly from HCM to Hanoi that’s my destination for 3 weeks I think that’s enough for the first time