Ummmm, must be unconfident

First timer here. I messaged someone and provided an insight about me. Started off with follow up comments and questions to their post that intrigued me. A very large paragraph about me and interests followed by a sentence of my appearance. It's R4R, people care about appearance and my preference is low which I just gave a sentence to please others just in case. She kinda went off rails about me providing a description of myself in the beginning and then about weight having only one meaning 🤦‍♂️