Why the Jackoben hate?

The scene of the HQ families basically hamming down on Jackoben's family thinking of Jackoben was hard to watch. Like they already got screwed with the team supply drop where they gave him hygiene supplies over longlasting food. Plus, the family that really begged them to step down extracted their family member anyways like what gives I'm confused? I dont think she even got the box they were yelling and fighting over Jackoben to not get. Isn't the whole point to think about your own family? I'm not saying to be mean, but still.